the monday snapshot – missohkay

missohkay from the missadventures of missohkay is going to open up the week for us with her contribution to the The Monday Snapshot –  meant to bring the PAIL blogroll to life by giving its members a chance to feature themselves and make new connections. 

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Hi, fellow PAIL-ers! I’m happy to be today’s guest host for The Monday Snapshot. I don’t normally participate in the Monday Snapshot because I password-protect all our photo posts from Internet weirdos who might steal our pictures and use them for nefarious purposes. But PAIL is special (and I can only assume has some sort of Internet weirdo firewall), so I’m making an exception and publicly posting today.
We’re feeling nostalgic right now in the ohkay household because in two weeks, it will be one year since Miss E came home! In adoption circles, that’s usually called “Gotcha Day.” I think that name is dumb, so I’ve dubbed ours “Home-a-versary” instead. Way better, right? (Just go with me.) I’ve been having a grand old-time making photo books and videos to celebrate. And attempting to make Miss E hold a piece of paper that says “one year home,” which is not working because she’d rather crinkle it up and tear it than politely hold it still for mama to take a picture. Toddlers!
For our Monday Snapshot, I’ve created a then-and-now picture of Miss E and me in her nursery with dessert-colored walls (extra points if you got my Juno reference).




Now, get to know a little more about missohkay with her answers to the Monday Snapshot “5 Questions”:

1) How long have you been blogging and how did you get started?

I joined Twitter in June 2010, and I still remember my first tweet: “Reading fertility blogs and laughing and crying. How did women survive before the Internet?” The instant support from Twitter was amazing. I was interested in blogging too but was skeptical that I could keep up with it. After some encouragement from my fellow tweet-ers (including PAIL’s own Mellow Mid-West Mama!), I started my blog in August 2010 and have somehow managed to scrape together something worth reading (I assume) at least once a week since then.

2) Tell us a little about your ALI journey and your family (3-4 sentences):

I’m an unexplained spontaneous aborter. That’s the medical community’s sassy and not-at-all-offensive (ha!) way of saying that I have miscarriages and they don’t know why. Perhaps we could have tried harder to figure out why, but after three first-trimester losses, mrohkay and I decided to pursue adoption. Our daughter Miss E has been home for nearly a year now, and we’re talking of starting a second adoption sometime in the next 12 months or so.

3) What makes you unique in the blogging world? (e.g. special talent, rare diagnosis, life experience)?

Well, miscarriage blogs sadly aren’t that unique. Neither are international adoption blogs. People who try to be funny but aren’t? Advocacy blogs? Transracial adoption blogs? Mommy blogs (gulp)? Yeah, I think it’s safe to say I’m not unique!

4) One word to describe yourself: 

Loquacious (what? If I had to pick one word, I wanted to make it worth your while.)

5) What blog or website (IF or not) would you recommend to others? Why?

My blogging inspiration is Julie at A Little Pregnant.  In my blog reader, there are my IF peers, who struggled while I struggled, who I cheer on and who cheer me on. And there are there are, like, my IF godmothers, who struggled a good eight years before I’d even heard the phrase “luteal phase” and still manage a decade later to write a post that I’ll devour the second it pops up in my reader. Julie is heartbreakingly honest and really freaking funny.


As always, we want to see your Monday Snapshot as well, so please comment below with a link to your post– and of course, go visit  missohkay at the misadventures of missohkay.

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